Yet, I can tell you that since I started dating again, I have 1.It’s all about attitude I looked at dating as a new adventure. Hey, even if the guy was a total dud, at least I got to try out a new restaurant, learn about a new hot spot in town, or at least get out of the house.Whether you're "divorced, in between jobs, in debt, or really anything else that might make you feel weak, damaged, or insecure, don't be afraid to speak to it," says House."Don't hide, don't flaunt, don't marginalize, or make light of it.She also recommends switching up your routine, which could mean anything from taking a different path to your office to trying a new coffee shop instead of your old standby. House suggests digging deeper than you usually would in conversations to learn more about people, places, and things."Ask questions as if you're a tourist – we tend to be more social when on vacation," she advises.Divorce is not easy, but the challenges in life are what cause us to grow.
Trying something new will help you rediscover parts of yourself that might have gone missing — potentially help you meet a new love interest. Strike up a conversation with someone in the grocery line – whatever feels the most comfortable to you.
Your past experiences made you the dynamic and layered person you are today.
It allows someone to understand you and why you are how you are, and it contributes to three important dating conversations: where you were, where you are, and where are you going."Newton says it's extra important for divorced people to not compare their date to their former spouse.
"There's nothing to hide or be ashamed of, and avoiding the topic sets the tone that you're afraid of something." Moving on from the topic is equally as important as addressing it in the first place, Newton adds.
Make it "clear you're willing to discuss it, but that you've also put it behind you. If the topic comes up, you might say, 'I'm divorced.